It is becoming increasingly common for spouses to divorce in their senior years. Divorcing once retired is often referred to as "gray divorce". Many people decide to divorce after they have retired because they realize that they want different things in their lives. Retirement is a big transition. Therefore, it is common for big changes to occur.
Thinking about whether to initiate a divorce can be a very confusing feeling. It can be almost impossible to figure out whether you are making the right decision, and questions will arise in your mind about whether you are giving up too soon or whether you should have put more effort into the relationship.
Money often pushes couples apart. It can even lead all the way to a divorce when couples cannot resolve their differences. These financial issues can then trickle over into the property division process.
If you are divorcing your spouse amicably, it is ideal if you can mutually decide on as many decisions as possible together. This can range from the dividing of the house and other assets, to child visitation, support and alimony. The more that you can decide together, the better coparents you will be and there will be less chance of resentment in your relationship.
Going through a divorce signifies that you and your partner have irreconcilable differences and that it is better for both parties (as well as any children you may have) to spend your lives apart. Although this is true, it does not necessarily mean that you cannot go through a smooth, sensible and amicable divorce process. There are many services that now offer a way to help estranged couples to settle their divorce collaboratively and move on in their lives while wishing each other well.
A great deal of emotional preparation, frustration and acceptance comes before deciding to move forward with a divorce. However, at the same time, it is vital to also prepare in practical ways. Once of the biggest aspects of this preparation is through the financials. Over the years, you are likely to have become intertwined and interdependent when it comes to income and expenses. So now a process must start whereby you can start to untangle your affairs.
Prior to a ruling in 2015, many same-sex spouses had a difficulty in getting legally divorced. The U.S. Supreme Court's 2015 ruling in Obergfell v. Hodges legalized gay marriage nationwide, and this made the divorce process much easier and standardized.
Property division is an intrinsic issue to the matter of divorce. Every couple will have some assets that they need to properly divide during a divorce. In Oregon, an equitable division of property and assets will be performed, though this doesn't necessarily mean that the property and assets will be equally divided.