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How to change your name after a divorce

After you file for a divorce, you will probably want to change your name to reflect the change in marital status. While topics on the divorce process are usually well-versed, the process of changing names after a divorce is generally a less discussed topic.

Coping with an emotionally straining divorce

Going through a divorce can be one of the toughest emotional experiences that you will ever have to go through. Many people focus on the importance of getting a good financial result after a divorce. However, it is more vital that you process the divorce in a healthy way and that you get the peace of mind that you deserve.

Explaining divorce to your children

One of the most difficult parts of divorce is having to explain to your children what is happening. This can be a heartbreaking thing to do, no matter what age they are. Their ages and their personalities will also have an impact on how you decide to do this.

Deciding to divorce during retirement

It is becoming increasingly common for spouses to divorce in their senior years. Divorcing once retired is often referred to as "gray divorce". Many people decide to divorce after they have retired because they realize that they want different things in their lives. Retirement is a big transition. Therefore, it is common for big changes to occur.

Dealing with the guilt of divorce

Thinking about whether to initiate a divorce can be a very confusing feeling. It can be almost impossible to figure out whether you are making the right decision, and questions will arise in your mind about whether you are giving up too soon or whether you should have put more effort into the relationship.

How is fair alimony calculated?

If you are divorcing your spouse amicably, it is ideal if you can mutually decide on as many decisions as possible together. This can range from the dividing of the house and other assets, to child visitation, support and alimony. The more that you can decide together, the better coparents you will be and there will be less chance of resentment in your relationship.

What are the benefits of divorcing amicably?

Going through a divorce signifies that you and your partner have irreconcilable differences and that it is better for both parties (as well as any children you may have) to spend your lives apart. Although this is true, it does not necessarily mean that you cannot go through a smooth, sensible and amicable divorce process. There are many services that now offer a way to help estranged couples to settle their divorce collaboratively and move on in their lives while wishing each other well.

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