Divorce is usually an emotional rollercoaster for both parties involved. There is probably a good reason why you are choosing to get divorced, and therefore, some part of you is likely feeling relief to be out of an unhealthy relationship. But at the same time, you are probably feeling fearful about the future, worrying about how your children will cope with the changes and stressing about financial issues.
You must take time for yourself amid the chaos of divorce. While it may feel impossible to do since you feel busier than ever, taking just a few minutes per day and investing them into your mental health can have a wonderful effect.
Let go of what you can’t control
Feeling out of control can cause the body to feel tense, stressed and constantly anxious. By learning to accept that some things are beyond your control, you can let them go and no longer waste energy on them.
Allow yourself to process your emotions
The daily struggles of life can distract you from your emotions. But those emotions will still be there, bubbling up from the surface. Take a few minutes each day to allow yourself to feel these emotions and try not to run from them. This will help you better process them.
Indulge in a healthy activity
Going to the gym, reading a good book or taking a walk in nature can be so beneficial to your health. Try to get into the habit of allowing yourself a couple of hours per week to indulge in a healthy activity.
If you feel stressed about divorce, you may feel better if you take action to understand the law and the process you are embarking on.